falling for a freind

Have u ever wondered about love and how people fall in love. a good friend of mine told me recently that the best relationships are based on being friends first before becoming lovers. i also recall from a nice country music by Kenny Rogers that a woman needs a lover and a friend. so my question then becomes what comes before the other. do you become friends first then lovers or the other way round. the worst mistake would to be a lover with a long time or close friend. at first you think that you are the best couple in the world and later learn that you were just good friends. if you are good at being friends i would strongly recommend that you strictly keep it at that since anything else would simply sack.

 if you come across a lovely lady on the street and you admire let her know your intention and never pull the line "lets first be friends and will see where it goes" that line "ITAKUANGUSHA BIG TYM"

always let the woman know your intentions that way you avoid heart breaks and you will not have kids all over who look like you.

Lets keep all we do safe the world would surely use some one like you.